How To Get And Keep Your Man Or Woman Always
Interested In You
Many of us
KNOW how things SHOULD WORK when we meet
someone with whom we share very strong
chemistry. Deep down inside we know that we
shouldn't and don't want to come off as
needy, desperate, pushy, controlling, etc.
because we don't want to scare him or her
But as soon as the other person shows
interest, we put ourselves out there and
instantly go "overboard" doing too many
things to show the object of our interest
and attention that we're "very much in
love". But just when we think that it
couldn't get any better, the other person
pulls back and no longer puts 100 percent
into the relationship.
Sadly, this happens to many men and women
over and over.
And the sadder part is that most men and
women never really change their "strategies"
even when it's so obvious that these
"strategies" just aren't working. And
nobody will really tell them -- or can
explain-- what's really behind the force
that draws men and women together.... and
drives them apart.
Exciting chemistry that develops and keeps a
man and a woman always interested in each
other depends on the perception that each is
fortunate to have attracted someone very
extraordinary and exceptional.
We can't seem to escape from this natural
desire for maximal investment. For some
reason, both men and woman seem to hold the
belief that people of quality -- who can
stand up in their own right, outstretch
themselves a bit to show their refinement
and SELF WORTH -- are hard to come by and
men or women who represent these qualities
are more desirable as mates. Consequently,
being allowed access and having a connection
to someone of "quality" means that we're
also of higher quality mates.
Playful resistance --a.k.a. Playing
Hard-To-Get --at least the way I teach it --
is simply the process of showing someone how
what you have to offer is of "quality" and
will be beneficial to them and the
relationship. It's about creating and
negotiating conditions that allow him or her
SEE what you have, WANT it, CHOOSE it and
ACT to get it.
Knowing the psychological and the relational
strategies that make a man or woman taste
the pleasures of accomplishment, extend him
or herself to his or her fullest potential
and feel recognized as having done something
worthwhile is the difference between keeping
your man or woman hooked on you and watching
him/her get bored with you or with the
So, if you’ve been doing everything you
could possibly do to keep your man or woman
interested, to make him or her want to
commit to you and nothing seems to work, ask
yourself, how am I creating and negotiating
conditions that allow him or her to SEE what
I have, WANT it, CHOOSE it and ACT to get
The emphasis here is "PLAY" (realness,
excitement, mystery, daring challenge,
carefree abandonment and lightheartedness)
and not "HARD" (deception, ignoring,
avoiding, acting unconcerned, indifferent,
aloof and sometimes downright cruel).
"HARD-TO-GET" will never inspire anyone who
is emotional secure, healthy and mature to
fall madly in love with you.
The men and women stimulated by silly little
childish mind control games are that way for
a reason. These are the ones who end up
tightly holding on to someone who is so
desperately trying to escape. This is no
lover's playful pursuit, but rather a
sincere hunt for food by starving creatures.
I definitely don't play it like that.
Did you enjoy reading this? Don't Wait
Another DAY! Start Playing Hard-To-Get The
Love Way NOW!